Would You Date a Bisexual Man?

Have to admit a fact, The dating pool is much wider for women than men, for a man. No matter what kind of sexual orientation. Many men and women are scared of saying that they are bisexual for fear that they will be mocked or shunned for their orientation. There is so much stigma against bisexual people for being “cheaters”, “unfaithful”, and will miss being with the other gender. It has permeated into the mind of many people that it’s hard to let go of that stigma.

A lot of gay guys are worried that bi men aren’t in it for the long haul, and that they’ll chicken out and switch to a socially acceptable hetero relationship because it’s easier than having to deal with homophobia. As bisexual men are constantly painted as “cheaters”, “unfaithful”, or that we’ll “miss” being with women if we’re in a committed relationship with a man. None of that shit is true for a vast majority of bisexual people, regardless of gender. I think it would be unnecessary for someone to enter into a relationship with hesitations just because the guy is bisexual.

As more and more bisexuals come out, many people will say yes, why not? It’d be stupid to not date someone for that reason. I’m kind of appalled there are that many who wouldn’t. Many people still can’t abandon their old ideas, thinking that bisexuality does not exist and that bisexual man is gay. Bisexual people deserve a lot of love. They get hate for being bisexual because more options to them would mean that they’ll cheat on you. Anyone would cheat if they’re a shitty person, it’s not tied to sexuality.

I will date a bisexual man without hesitation. If we are not together in the end, it is not because of his sexual orientation, but for other reasons. If your only reason is their sexuality to another gender or your personal experiences making you judge all bisexual people you should all be ashamed of yourself. You’re no different than the bigots trying to take away LGBT rights. The best way to dismantle this concept is by remembering that attraction does not lie. If the person you are dating identifies as bisexual and says they love and want to be with you, believe them. After all, they chose you, not anyone else.

Don’t perpetuate such negative stereotypes dude, “Bi guys always end up with girls.” If you date him with prejudice at the beginning, then your date is doomed to fail. Yes, bi guys have their obstacles to face, but if they never come out they can still live a happy life with a woman. But this does not mean that we have the right to stop them from coming out. It does not mean that we have the right to discriminate and ignore their existence.

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