With the growing popularity and support for the modern gay and bisexual rights movement, people around the world are freer than ever before to explore and express their individual sexualities. Bisexual or Bi-curious? Many people don’t care about this label. But society loves labels. It makes things easy, metred and gauge-able. Many people confuse bisexuality with unicorn, Threesomes are among the most common fantasies for bisexual couples, so they always looking for the third person join them, no matter what reasons, sexy or long-term relationship. Unicorn often describes a person who joins a couple as their third partner, for sex or even for something more committed.
Maybe you’ve considered yourself “straight” all your life. Perhaps you’re a girl who likes boys, but once in a while you find that your gaze lingers a little longer on the glorious figures of women you see on Instagram and you can’t help but stare as their long legs pass you on the street. Perhaps you’re a boy who likes girls . . . but you start to get a certain feeling when you’re alone in a room with another attractive man. Maybe you even came out of the womb flamboyantly and wondrously gay, but just recently you’ve begun thinking more about people of the opposite gender.
If you have previously been identifying with a certain sexuality all your life, it might feel a bit odd to begin thinking about identifying differently now. Hopefully this article can help clear things up for you . . . or at the very least, it can set you on the right path to finding out. Allow the following explanations to guide you:
For bisexual, You enjoy having sexual relations with people of both genders. That’s all there really is to it. Just because you’ve identified as as strictly gay or straight in the past doesn’t mean that you need to limit yourself in that same way now. The wonderful thing about sex and sexuality is that it’s as fluid as you want it to be. It grows and changes, morphs and becomes better with time, just as you do.
For bicurious, You can’t definitively say whether or not you enjoy having sex with both genders. If you have a long-held or even a brand new curiosity about having sex with both men and women, you’re definitely bicurious . . . If this is where you’re at, congratulations! It’s a wonderful place to be. This could be the start of a whole new sexual life for you. Or it may just reaffirm your interest in the gender you’ve previously been having sex with. Either way, get out and explore your curiosity. Try something new. Go on a bisexual date. Follow your wants and desires to their very end. It’s unlikely that you’ll regret it.
Whatever you feel, allow yourself to feel it. If you’re a girl who’s never kissed a girl and you’re curious about kissing a girl, go find a beautiful girl! If you’re a boy who’s never kissed a boy and you’re curious about kissing a boy, go find a boy to sexual relations with.
Love and sex in our day in age should be free, fluid, and fun. At the end of the day, how you label it is up to you. As long as it’s enjoyable and consensual, love is what you want.